Source: Of Life She Writes, Dec 2015
<a comment to the blog posting>
… think this is a completely female thing. You want to have a special kind of love before you ‘share cookies’ with someone. You want to know them on a deep and personal level. You want to recognize their laugh and their smell. You want to know what goes on in their mind and them to know what is going on in yours. You want to know what makes them tick, what they are obsessed with. You want to know that person.
Men use sex as a way to bond, and women do too, don’t get me wrong. But women need to bond on an emotional level before they feel comfortable. I promise if you genuinely get to know a woman, sex will be more enjoyable.
She will be able to relax and release because she feels safe being vulnerable around you.