Source: Mashable, Aug 2015
… expert casual dater and hookup arranger Rachael … wants to offer the good advice she’s learned over the course of her speedy hookup career. These are her top four tips:
1. Don’t kid yourself. “Go into every encounter feeling like if you never see or hear from this person again it’s completely acceptable (if not preferred), and there won’t be any upset or hurt feelings.”
2. Listen to internal red flags. “If something feels off, don’t go through with it. It’s not hard for a man to put on a pair of pants and meet you at a bar.”
3. Tell a friend. “Just so someone knows where I am, my friend and I will also usually send a pic of the guy with his name and address to each other if we’re going directly to someone’s apartment and not meeting in public.”
4. Be realistic. “Don’t f*ck someone this fast because you are looking for a relationship. Do it because you want to get off.”
… overtures for no-strings-attached sex requires two crucial elements be in play: His consent — and hers.
Related resource: Vanity Fair, Aug 2015